PRIVATE INTENSIVE RETREATS | The Wholeness Method

COULD YOUR MARRIAGE USE A FRESH START?

Our 2-4 night private Marriage Retreat could be just the thing you need.

WHAT HAPPENED?

Most couples don’t set out to drift apart — it just happens slowly, beneath the surface. Life gets busy. Words go unspoken. Passion turns into routine. Before long, you’re surviving instead of thriving, and wondering where the closeness went.

HOW CAN I FIX IT?

This retreat is your invitation to reconnect your relationship — to breathe again, to feel again, to remember why you chose each other. Through guided conversations, spiritual reflection, and outdoor adventure, you’ll uncover what’s been buried, heal what’s been broken, and rediscover the beauty of your bond. Because when two hearts reconnect to truth, to purpose, and to God — your love becomes unshakable.

Set in the beautiful mountains of Ojai, this immersive 3-day experience blends deep counseling, adventure, and rest — helping couples heal emotional wounds, restore intimacy, create unique memories, and build a marriage that thrives in every season.

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What You’ll Experience

This isn’t a seminar, and it’s not another weekend away — it’s a sacred reset for your marriage. Our intensive retreats combine interactive sessions, spiritual renewal, and hands-on experiences that awaken love, trust, and friendship again.

YOU'LL EXPERIENCE:

Rest and Renewal – Step away from distractions and rediscover peace in the stillness of Ojai’s mountains.

Deep Connection – Learn how to communicate with compassion and truly understand one another again.

Healing and Breakthrough – Unpack patterns of pain and shame that have kept your relationship stuck.

Adventure and Joy – Reignite playfulness through shared outdoor experiences that remind you what it’s like to enjoy each other.

Spiritual Realignment – Invite God into the center of your story and watch Him rebuild what seemed lost.

Every moment is designed to help you move from weary and disconnected to restored, renewed, and alive — as individuals and as one.

Each stay is adjustable for your particular interests and needs. Retreats can have up to five sessions with Jacob but can also mix in unique recommended dining experiences and outdoor adventure requests like hot springs, hikes, secret water holes and surfing.

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The vision behind these retreats:

In his younger years, Jacob was a top-ranked professional bodyboarder and spent many years leading international surf tours.

As an adult, Jacob transitioned careers from surf tours and he and Kimberly began pastoring churches and counseling individuals and couples. He has now spent over two decades walking individuals and couples through the deep work of healing, reconnection, and spiritual renewal.

In recent years, Jacob was inspired to combine his love for the outdoors with his counseling ministry to launch these intimate marriage retreats for couples seeking to move beyond surface-level fixes and step into lasting transformation. These retreats mix transformative sessions in cozy settings on Jacob's property with romantic and unique outings both in the town of Ojai, as well as in the surrounding wilderness.