The Problem?
You’re tired of the same fight on repeat. Or worse—the silence.
You still love each other (and you love God), but the distance, the resentment, the breakdown in communication, or the bedroom that’s been dead for years… it’s stealing your joy and making you question everything.
where traditional therapy fails,
We find breakthrough time and again.
You don't just need more information—you need transformation. We’ve been there with couples just like you for over 20 years, and we’ve watched God do the impossible time and time again: turn bitterness into desire, strangers into best friends, and broken covenants into something more beautiful than the first day you said, “I do.”
When you work with me, here’s what you can expect:
-
A private, safe and judgment-free space where walls can come down and communication can flow freely.
-
A rare blend of Spirit-led prayer mixed with proven clinical tools (Gottman Method, sex therapy, trauma-informed care), and practical steps that actually move the needle.
-
Deep, lasting shifts—not just band-aids—in how you see yourself, your spouse, and God
-
Renewed connection, intimacy, and joy that you thought might be gone forever
-
Clear next steps and tools you can use long after our time together ends
SERVICES
FEEDBACK
ABout
Jacob and Kimberly have been married for 30 years and together have raised six children. Jacob is an ordained pastoral counselor who also has completed certifications in the Gottman method, and sex therapy. For over 25 years, Jacob has guided couples and individuals out of pain and into lasting wholeness. His most impressive credentials are his own marriage and family. What they teach isn’t theory. They’ve walked through their own hard seasons and watched God restore what looked beyond repair—again and again.
Today, from their peaceful ranch in Ojai, California, Jacob and Kimberly help couples find breakthroughs in renewed intimacy, honest communication, and a marriage that feels fully alive in Christ.
If you’re tired of distance, resentment, or just going through the motions, Jacob and Kimberly would be honored to walk with you. You don’t have to carry this alone anymore.
