The Wholeness Method
Scripture-Rooted. Neuroscience-Informed.
Designed for Real Connection.
where traditional therapy fails,
We find breakthrough time and again.
We’ve been there with couples just like you for over 20 years, and we’ve watched God do the impossible time and time again: turn bitterness into desire, strangers into best friends, and broken covenants into something more beautiful than the first day you said, “I do.”
what you can expect
Jacob & Kimberly's intensives really need to be experienced to understand the magnitude of what they offer, but here are a few things you can expect:
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A private, safe and judgment-free space where walls can come down and communication can flow freely.
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A rare blend of Spirit-led interactions mixed with proven clinical tools and practical steps that actually move the needle.
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Deep, lasting shifts—not just band-aids—in how you see yourself, your spouse, and the world.
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Renewed connection, intimacy, and joy that you thought might be gone forever.
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Clear next steps and tools you can use long after our time together ends.
LOCATION
Set in the beautiful mountains of Ojai, this immersive 3-day experience blends deep counseling, adventure, and rest — helping couples heal emotional wounds, restore intimacy, create unique memories, and build a marriage that thrives in every season.
"The Setting Sun" is the name we gave this private 300 sf. cabin that is located at the back of the property with beautiful mountain views. Full bathroom, Bed nook, and kitchen with indoor and outdoor seating areas.
PRICING:
3-Day / 2-Night OR 4-Day / 3-Night
Private Marriage RETREAT IN OJAI, CA
A highly personal retreat on our family ranch in Ojai, California
Hosted and guided personally by Jacob & Kimberly Reeve
Your retreat at a glance
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Private guest cottage on our 2-acre ranch (your own space, no shared walls)
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1–2 deep, unhurried sessions per day with Jacob
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Guided half-day outings with Jacob to Ojai’s most beautiful & healing places — hidden swimming holes, hot springs, seaside lookouts, gentle hikes, or sunrise surfing (your choice - seasonal restrictions may apply)
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One double-date dinner with Jacob & Kimberly — our treat, no agenda, just real conversation, laughter and spontaneous occurrences.
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Curated “Ojai’s best date spots” restaurant list so you can enjoy meals on your own time (or bring your own groceries if special diets require)
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Plenty of unscheduled hours for rest, processing, and reconnection
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Option to add extra nights if you want more alone-time afterward (many couples do)
2026 Investment:
2 nights / 3 days – $3,900 per couple
3 nights / 4 days – $4,900 per couple
Additional nights – $250/night (cottage only, no extra sessions)
- Interest-free payment plans up to 12 months
- a small number of partial scholarships available
Limited to 6–8 retreats per year. Dates book 4–8 months in advance.
→ Book a free 20-minute call with Jacob to claim your dates
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you provide meals? No — we want you to enjoy Ojai’s incredible restaurants together. We give you our personal “best date-night” list and cover one double-date dinner with us.
What if we want more alone time after the intensive? Add as many extra nights as you like at $250/night (cottage only). Many couples stay an extra 2–3 nights just to process and enjoy each other.
Is this only for Christian couples? We happily welcome couples of all beliefs so long as they are genuinely open and respectful to our methods.
When are retreats held? Year-round, Thursday–Sunday or Sunday–Wednesday. We’ll find dates that work for you.
Ready for a life changing experience?