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 THE 

 WHOLENESS 

 METHOD 

 FOR 

 CHURCHES​ 

 

 Helping Churches Strengthen Individuals, Marriages, and Families â€‹

You care deeply about the people God has entrusted to your ministry. But sometimes individuals and couples need more focused support than pastors and church staff can realistically provide.

 

That's where we can serve you.

 

Jacob Reeve & The Wholeness Method™ partner with churches through counseling, transformational training, marriage events, and Christ-centered resources that help people become whole and build healthier relationships.

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  I know what it's like to  
  feel alone as a pastor.  

During my years as a senior pastor and church planter, I became increasingly burdened by the number of individuals and marriages struggling with wounds, disconnection, and deeply established patterns.

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But this wasn't only something I saw in the people I served. My own marriage went through difficult seasons, and at times I wasn't sure where to turn for the kind of help we needed.

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That experience helped me recognize a great need within the Church. We deeply believe in the healing and transforming power of Christ, yet pastors, leaders, and couples sometimes need more focused support and specialized training to work through the patterns keeping them stuck.

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That burden eventually led me to step away from my senior pastoral role and pursue specialized training to make this work my full-time focus.

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Today, my desire is simple: to serve Christian leaders personally, equip them to better serve the people they care for, and help build healthier individuals, stronger marriages, thriving families, and flourishing organizations.

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More about Jacob >

Endorsements from Christian Leaders

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"Jacob has a very unique gift for understanding people. I would highly recommend him for solving anything people related."​​

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- Mike Frank

(Former Senior VP - PepsiCo & The Walt Disney Company)

"Jacob Reeve has been one of the greatest influencers in my life."​​​

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- Rob Dayton

(National Director of Coaches for The Masters Program & Founder of 100X Life)

"Jacob is likely one of the best marriage counselors in the nation. If anyone wants a better marriage, don't miss this."​​​

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- Steven Uggen

(Founder & Director of Firebase Movement & Man Church)

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"Jacob has the gift of wisdom and revelation and he has used it to guide so many people to wholeness and health. I recommend this to everyone, especially ministry leaders."​​​

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- Jora Bhular

(Former Senior Director of SBHOP & Overseers of Bath St. Ministry House)

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“Jacob is a deep well of wisdom gained from tons of life experience. The Church is blessed to have him."​​​

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- Joshua Carvalho

(Evangelist, Author, Host of Testimonies Podcast)

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 WHERE COULD 

 YOU USE 

 SUPPORT? 

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01 — SUPPORT YOU

Personal Support for Pastors & Ministry Leaders

 

Pastors need a trusted place to process life too. We provide confidential, Christ-centered counseling and coaching for pastors and ministry leaders navigating marriage, ministry, personal struggles, relationships, leadership pressures, or seasons of transition.

02 — HELP YOU SUPPORT YOUR PEOPLE

Specialized Counseling & Coaching

 

Refer individuals and couples who need more focused support. We provide personalized counseling, coaching, and training for marriage struggles, personal wholeness, intimacy, relational patterns, and couples in crisis.

03 — HELP YOU EQUIP YOUR CHURCH

Teaching, Events & Transformational Training

 

Bring The Wholeness Method™ to your church through Sunday teaching, marriage events and retreats, workshops, or structured training experiences designed to help people move beyond simply hearing truth to actually living it.

Whether you need support personally, have people in your congregation who need more focused help, or want to strengthen your church as a whole, there are three primary ways we can come alongside you. Please reach out if you'd welcome our partnership in any of these ways. 

 WOULD YOU LIKE US 

 TO PARTNER WITH 

 YOU IN EQUIPPING 

 YOUR CHURCH? 

 

From a single message to an ongoing transformational training, we can create an experience that fits the needs, size, and goals of your church.

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 ONE-TIME TEACHING 

Introduce One Transformational Idea

 

Invite Jacob to speak during a Sunday service, marriage gathering, men's event, special ministry night or virtual meetup. Each teaching is designed around a clear biblical and relational principle people can immediately begin applying to their lives.

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 WORKSHOP, RETREAT OR 

 CONFERENCE 

Create Space for Deeper Work

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Go beyond a single message with an interactive experience combining teaching, assessment, discussion, exercises, and practical application. These can be designed virtually or in person for couples, men, leaders, or the broader church.

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 4-PART TRAINING 

Learn the Fundamentals. Put Them into Practice.

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A focused training experience that takes participants through the foundational principles of Marriage, Individual Wholeness, or another selected area. Each session builds on the last and includes specific practices to apply between meetings.

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 2-PART TRANSFORMATION 

Go Deeper. Practice. Process. Change.

 

A more comprehensive facilitated experience designed to help participants identify the patterns keeping them stuck, learn healthier ways of living and relating, put them into practice, and process what they're discovering along the way.

 

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 AVAILABLE VIRTUALLY OR IN PERSON.

 

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 LET'S DESIGN SOMETHING THAT FITS FOR YOUR CHURCH.

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NOTE: Jacob Reeve is an ordained minister, former pastor, and marriage and relationship coach. The Wholeness Method provides faith-informed coaching, relationship education, spiritual formation, assessments, and practical training.

 

Jacob is not a California-licensed psychotherapist, marriage and family therapist, professional clinical counselor, psychologist, or clinical social worker. Services do not include mental-health diagnosis or clinical treatment and are not a substitute for licensed medical or mental-health care. When a client’s needs fall outside the scope of coaching, referral to an appropriately licensed professional may be recommended.​

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