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A psychologically rich, spiritually grounded intimacy discovery system for couples.

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Discover your unique Intimacy Blueprint

—AND WHY YOU AND YOUR PARTNER EXPERIENCE INTIMACY DIFFERENTLY

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Take this quick 3-minute quiz to discover your primary intimacy pattern—and why you may be missing each other.

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Your desire for intimacy is not random.

It's a map to the deepest longings of your heart.

And marriage is designed to be the place where that longing can finally be met.

The Real Issue Isn't Desire —

It's Not Understanding Your Desire

Most Couples Aren't Lacking Desire.

They're Lacking Clarity.

Your Body, Emotions, and Nervous System ALL Influence Intimacy

YOUR:

✦ Arousal wiring

✦ Desire Suppressors

✦ Core Emotional Needs

✦ Nervous System Triggers

✦ Sensory preferences

✦ Attachment style

When you don’t understand your pattern — and your spouse doesn’t know theirs

— intimacy becomes:

▸pressured

▸predictable

▸disconnected

▸disappointing

▸avoided

But none of this means you’re broken.

➣ It means you’ve never discovered your Blueprint.

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The 8 Intimacy

Blueprint Types

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• The Emotional

Connection awakens me.
When you respond to me in a way that makes me feel truly heard, seen, and known, my heart opens to you...

• The Sensual

Sensual Engagement awakens me.
Sights, scents, tastes, sounds, and touch... Engage my senses and my defenses begin to fall.

• The Desired

Being wanted awakens me.

The thought of you getting turned on by me, stirs something deep and wild within me.

• The Giver

Giving pleasure awakens me.

When you receive my efforts to relax you, bless you, and bring you pleasure, I can't help but want to give you more.

• The Playful

Play awakens me.
Respond to me playfully with flirtation, charm and joyful energy, and you'll win me over every time.

• The Imaginative

Imagination awakens me.
Capture my imagination with story, curiosity or novelty—and I'll follow you almost anywhere.

• The Archetypal

Polarity awakens me.
When masculine strength leads and protects while feminine trust is inspired to surrender, I am yours.

• The Holy

Meaningfulness awakens me.
When I know our intimacy is honoring to God, my heart opens to love you even more.

"I have an SGP blueprint. I'm a Sensual, Giver, Playful..."

"I'm EDH; Emotional, Desired, Holy..."

You’re probably already seeing yourself—and your spouse in this.

And if you’ve taken our quick assessment, you've already seen your highest score—a glimpse into how your desire works.

But that's only the surface.

Most people don’t fit just one Blueprint.

> You likely carry 2-4 primary types

> And your spouse carries a completely different combination

And the way those patterns interact…

changes everything.

Some combinations create natural alignment.
Others create confusion, pressure, or distance—

without either of you understanding why.

This is why so many couples feel mismatched—even when they love each other.

Discover your Intimacy Blueprint

— what it reveals about your subconscious needs, your deepest longings, and how you and your partner’s patterns open to each other.

Take our quick quiz and get an immediate report showing your unique blueprint!

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Meet Jacob & Kimberly — Your Guides

Married since 1997.

Parents of six Children.

Ordained ministers, counselors, and relationship coaches for over two decades.

But the deepest part of their credibility doesn’t come from their credentials — it comes from their journey.

After years of church planting, pastoring and biblical counseling, Jacob suddenly lost his voice. That single event triggered a painful season that nearly broke them: career shifts, displacement, exhaustion, eventual financial collapse, and emotional strain that left deep marks on their hearts and their marriage.

When stability finally returned, the emotional trauma lingered. In that season, God began a surprising work — starting with Kimberly. Through a series of interactions with God, she experienced a profound rebirth: a total shedding of shame, fear, and old identity. In her own words, “I was born again, again.”

Jacob's rebirth took more time, but before long, they both found themselves married to two new people — and their marriage had to be relearned from the ground up: communication, boundaries, trust, and in particular, intimacy.

As healing took root, something unexpected happened. Their intimacy began to awaken. They felt safer, freer, and more honest than ever before. Trust deepened. Curiosity returned. Their bedroom became a place of discovery rather than pressure. And they noticed something crucial:

Their sexual responses were revealing where healing had taken place…

and where healing was still needed.

Desire, shutdown, openness, avoidance — all of it was speaking.

Their sexuality had become a map of spiritual and emotional renewal.

Over time, intimacy became tender, responsive, playful, joyful, and deeply alive. They experienced a type of connection that far surpassed their honeymoon years — even after decades of marriage, six kids, and the constant pressures of a very busy life.

They discovered a truth:

Sexual frustration is never just about sex

— it’s the heart trying to speak.

It reveals identity, fear, longing, and where the heart is deeply longing to be met.

This revelation changed everything.

God designed covenant sexuality to unlock hidden truths, restore innocence, and bring profound healing to the soul.

The Intimacy Blueprint was born from this journey — not as a course to “improve your sex life,” but as a God-designed pathway where the deepest longings of the heart are met through covenant intimacy.

Everything Shifts When You Discover Your Intimacy Blueprint

This isn’t surface-level advice.

This is a psychologically rich, spiritually grounded, trauma-aware discovery system.

Couples regularly say:

“This explains everything.”
“We finally understand each other.”
“We’re not broken — we’re just different.”

And for many, it becomes the first safe, shame-free step toward rebuilding closeness.

You don’t need more effort.
You need understanding.

And once you have it—everything changes.

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> Quiz is only 11 questions long = ~3 minutes.

> Totally FREE - an email is the only thing required.

>Instant self-generated report upon completion

COURSES: Individual Wholeness | Marriage Wholeness | Sexual Wholeness

NOTE: Jacob is a Pastoral Counselor and Marriage Coach.

Coaching courses are not therapy; consult professionals for therapy needs.

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