Hi, my name is Jacob Reeve and along with my wife Kimberly, we are the founders of the Wholeness Method. I have been a pastoral counselor who specializes in individual and relational transformation for over 20 years. Over the decades, we've been studying couples who have not only survived challenges in marriage, but who describe themselves as having become "very happy" in their later years.

We found 12 unmistakable qualities almost all these couples share. These 12 qualities and conversations can be reduced further into the four categories mentioned above. We have created an incredible course that breaks these habits down step-by-step, and we close each lesson with a vital conversation guide to help you apply the grace of each trait to your own relationship. We call the course, "The 12 Measures of a Winning Marriage." In the course we use assessments, quick concept charts, vital conversation guides and other tools to bring couples a positive, private, interactive experience that drives immediate positive change.​​

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We hope you'll join us in this incredible journey of marriage!