The Wholeness Method
Biblical & Neuroscience-Based Marriage Transformation
You Don’t Need a Perfect Marriage
—Just a Clear Path Forward
The Connected Marriage blends God’s wisdom with proven neuroscience to help couples rebuild trust, deepen connection, and restore joy — step by step, with compassion and clarity.
WHY IT WORKS
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Scripture + Brain Science = Lasting Transformation
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3 Pillars:
Biblical Identity & Covenant → Restores safety & purpose
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Neuroscience & Attachment → Rewires emotional reactions
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Simple Daily Steps → Builds secure, consistent connection
The Connected Marriage
MARRIAGE RENEWAL COURSE
A step-by-step journey to help you rebuild emotional safety, restore trust, and form the secure bond God intended for your marriage.
In just a few weeks, you’ll learn the habits, rhythms, and repair tools that transform connection.
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Create emotional safety & eliminate insecurity
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Break reactive cycles with simple repair steps
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Strengthen communication & attunement
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Reignite intimacy & tenderness
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Form lifelong patterns of connection
"This was so helpful. Starting with the first lesson, each new concept has been a total gamechanger. We haven't had a fight that ends negatively since we started and our marriage has experienced a major turnaround..."
Henry & Michelle Arroyo
Santa Clarita, CA
"This was just what our marriage needed. After years of slowly becoming more and more disconnected, we didn't know where to start. This was perfect. Not only are we out of our slump, but we feel like we now have a master's degree in each other... Thank you!"
Jim & Beth Johnson
Houston
"Beautiful course. We had no idea something like this existed! We felt like God was solving our issues one by one. We couldn't be happier. This course has completely shifted how we treat each other."
Jack & Monica Matthews
Nashville, TN
ABOUT THE FOUNDERS
Jacob & Kimberly Reeve
Married nearly 30 years and raising six children, Jacob and Kimberly have lived the truths they teach—walking through real challenges, real growth, and God’s faithful restoration. Jacob is an ordained minister, biblical counselor, and relationship coach with 25+ years of experience, blending Scripture, Gottman training, and research-based methods to help couples thrive. Together, they offer tools, courses, intensives, and church partnerships to help marriages become safe, connected, and fully alive—the very transformation they’ve experienced in their own story.
