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FREE RESOURCES

Sharable resources for Individuals, Couples, Counselors and Churches

HELPFUL ASSESSMENTS

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"Relational Connection" 

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This Assessment measures the depth of your internal relational & emotional connection. 

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"12 Measures of a Winning Marriage" â€‹â€‹â€‹

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This assessment measures three of the twelve key levels of a thriving marriage: security, conflict style & the fun you have with each other. 

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"Conflict Intelligence" 

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This assessment measures how affective and productive you are at repairing rupture in your relationship.

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"The Quality of the Story You Repeat About Marriage" 

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This assessment measures the quality of your internal narrative and the story you are repeating in your head about your union.

USEFUL ARTICLES

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​"THE 4 LEVELS OF YOUR IDENTITY"

A New Reference for Effective Biblical Counseling

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This article introduces a Biblical view of the four levels of our identity, and how utilizing these ancient concepts can revolutionize our effectiveness in Christian counseling. 

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​"An Approach to Overcoming Porn Addiction"

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In this article, Jacob digs into understanding porn addiction along with three methods to overcoming it, then suggests a fourth. 

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​"WHAT IS COVENANT & WHY IT MATTERS"

UNDERSTANDING THIS ANCIENT ANTIDOTE FOR INSECURITY

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This article introduces readers to the four ingredients of a covenant, each one acting as another arrow in the carcass of our relational insecurity. 

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​"How to win every conflict"

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What if the biggest fights in your marriage weren’t threats… but invitations to become the person you most want to be?

FREE Self-discovery EDUCATIONAL ARTICLES & Videos:

Discover Insights into Your Heart & Relationships

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In these short, Christ-centered videos, Jacob Reeve shares practical wisdom to help you uncover patterns of pain, healing, and connection in your heart and relationships. Each video is between 5-15 minutes — perfect for individuals, couples, counselors, or churches seeking biblical insight and growth.

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Wholeness Method members unlock dozens more in-depth videos, assessments, and exclusive resources. Become a member to go deeper.

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  • â–¶ Four Measures of Marriage Wholeness - Explore the key pillars of a healthy, God-honoring marriage [Copy Link to Share]

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  • â–¶ Understanding Personal Health's Effect on Relationships - See how your inner well-being shapes how you love and connect [Copy Link to Share]

 

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  • â–¶ Understanding Relational Security / Insecurity - Learn how attachment styles influence trust and intimacy in relationships [Copy Link to Share]

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  • â–¶ Understanding Conflict Source & Value - Uncover the roots of conflict and how it can lead to deeper growth [Copy Link to Share]

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  • â–¶ Understanding Intimacy & Its Manifestation Through Sex - Discover God's beautiful design for emotional, spiritual, and physical closeness [Copy Link to Share]

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  • â–¶ Understanding Emotional Intelligence - Build skills to navigate feelings and communicate with empathy [Copy Link to Share]

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  • â–¶ Understanding Wholeness - Grasp what true biblical wholeness looks like in everyday life [Copy Link to Share]

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  • â–¶ Understanding the Four Layers of Your Identity - Dive into the spiritual, emotional, relational, and physical aspects of who God created you to be [Copy Link to Share]

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FREE ASSESSMENTS:

Discover Insights into Your Heart & Relationships​​

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We offer these free assessments to help you gain powerful insights into your heart, relationships, and patterns of pain or connection. In just around 5 minutes each, you'll receive immediate, personalized results — perfect for individuals, couples, counselors, or churches.

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Wholeness Method members unlock dozens more in-depth assessments and resources. Become a member to go deeper.

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  • 🗹 Four Measures of Marriage Wholeness Assessment -  Evaluate the key pillars of a healthy, God-honoring marriage (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • 🗹 The Five Love Languages Assessment - Discover how you and your spouse give and receive love most naturally (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • 🗹 Personal Relational Health Assessment - Gain insight into your overall relational patterns and areas for growth (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • 🗹 Relational Security / Insecurity Assessment - Understand your attachment style and how it affects trust and connection (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • 🗹 Conflict Source Assessment - Uncover the root causes behind recurring arguments and tension (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • 🗹 Intimacy Assessment - Explore emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy in your relationship (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • 🗹 Relational Intelligence Assessment - Measure your ability to navigate emotions, communication, and empathy in relationships (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]

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  • IPC (Intimacy, Passion & Commitment) Assessment - The big three that determine the "love" experience.  (5 minutes) [Take the Assessment] | [Copy Link to Share]​​​​​​

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